Papa Don’t Preach

In honor of Father's Day, Doin' It Well thought it would be a good idea to address how fathers can be actively involved in a positive way in their daughters' sexual development. A father (and other men who are ...
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Collapsible Women

Dear Kim and Ross, I wanted to take some time to respond to a couple of points you made in your columns during April. As you said in your first installment, "there are still some myths about survivors that i...
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Stop the “Madness”

Myths and misinformation about masturbation have been around for a long time. Why is masturbation still so taboo? Here's a brief walk through history outlining influences on our current feelings about self-love...
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Living and Loving Large

Dear Kim and Ross, I read with interest your "Sex 411: Women's Sexual Bill of Rights." I was wondering if a woman has the right to grow larger. and still deserve sex. I lost 100lbs to get down to a size 6 an...
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Being Here

For the past three weeks, Doin' It Well has focused on issues around sexual violence and sexuality. We believe it is important that we make room to talk about sexual violence and positive sexuality at the same ...
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I Will Survive:

Research shows that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender folks experience sexual violence at equal or greater rates to heterosexuals. Unfortunately, due to a culture of homophobia (the irrational fear and hat...
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For One and For All

Sexual consent means being able to freely and comfortably choose which sexual activities to engage in. It seems like a pretty easy concept, right? Yet the lines of consent often get blurred. The reality is tha...
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Sexual Healing

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. In recognition of this month, we are dedicating the next four columns to an issue that isn't commonly discussed in the realm of positive sexuality: sexual violence. Acco...
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We Need You

We are both involved in a community organization called the Campaign for Comprehensive Sex Education (CCSE). This campaign is dedicated to making sure local schools are providing comprehensive, medically accura...