Rock your socks off

Some of you may have seen a recent viral post on Facebook about Quentin Tarantino and his supposed kinky foot fetish. Reading it got us at Doin’ It Well thinking about the turn-ons of the feet, why a sexual att...

Sex with the ex

Can partners move from a dating relationship to a purely sexual one without difficulties? It may depend on the individual as well as the length and depth of the relationship. Plenty of us can recall a time wh...

Dirty talk

Ross attended a conversation with about 75 college-aged men focused on sex and consent. After the panel had discussed the definition of consent — that consent meant an actively and enthusiastically communicated...

Exploring infidelity

Cheating occurs when someone is pursuing a relationship without the knowledge or consent of their exclusive partner. Relationships are often agreements and “promises” with one another. When we’re in a relations...

Masculinity and male survivors of rape

Ross was recently invited to be part of a panel for a group of 75 fraternity men at a local college. The men on this campus had decided that they needed to have time alone with other men to discuss sexual viole...

Holding out or giving in

Recently, we brainstormed topic ideas, and the topic of withholding sex came up. We realized that this isn't something we've written about before, but we've often heard people suggest their partner is refrainin...

Keepin’ the flame alive

Most of us have probably heard from a variety of people and places that keeping the spark in long-term relationships, especially those that are monogamous, can be hard. There’s all sorts of advice out there abo...

Remembering Juno

Often in the world of reproductive health we focus so much on preventing pregnancy that we overlook those teens that already are pregnant or are currently parenting. There are often inadequate resources for the...

Feels like the first time

Recently, “Doin’ It Well” was asked about what someone needs to know before having sex with a virgin. This made us ask the question, “What is virginity anyway?” It may seem like a simple word, but virginity is ...

TAG, you’re it

Quality sex education is hard to find, but here in Champaign-Urbana, we have a rare and fabulous resource. The Teen Awareness Group (TAG) is a local group of teens trained and supervised by Planned Parenthood t...